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Bayard Bendler

I know this sounds like a strange title for a blog, but let me explain.

About twenty years ago finances were extremely bad for Prison Outreach of Delaware.

I would turn to our staff and tell them; "well, we are O.K. this week. God will have us doing this work for another week. I just don’t know what will happen next week".

     Our treasurer Bayard Bendler was a God fearing and an honorable man with a tremendous faith in the Lord. I would report to him what our deposit was for the week after Terri Lindell, our Office Manager logged all of the checks in the financial ledgers and made the deposit in the bank.

      During those years there was never quite enough money to make ends meet. At times we would get behind in finances and staff would get two, three and even four weeks behind for an extended period of time. This was very difficult for us all.

     It is difficult to be a treasurer in any situation, but especially when there is no money to pay the staff and the bills and still maintain the integrity of the ministry. Bayard would gently tell me that there wasn’t enough money in the account to pay everybody, but he believed that “The Big One is in the Mail”! Week after week we would just barely survive as a ministry, and week after week Bayard would say. “The Big one is in the Mail”

     I must admit, there were days and weeks that I didn’t even want to talk to him because I knew what he was going to say, “The Big One is in the Mail”.

     What I didn’t know or understand was that Bayard truly believed that the Big One was in the mail. I didn’t believe it. I even resented having to struggle with finances week after week and month after month. It was only through Bayard’s faith that we were able to keep things together.

     Little by little I began to understand that The Big one was in the Mail, but not the way you might think. At points in time when we least expected it God would provide in some wonderful but unusual way, a blessing to lift us up and keep us going. The Big One that Bayard referred to was not a check but a blessing. It is the little things that give us hope and kept us serving, praising, and trusting.

     The Big One was not some grand donation but the small signs and signals that God gave us along the way telling us not to quit, not to waver from the mission to which we had been called.

     When I began to look a little closer, I realized that God had a plan in this ministry. It was bigger than all of us and it had eternal consequences. The blessings just abounded for me. The little things in our family’s life became a real blessing. The small encouragements from folks who believed in this ministry continued to flow and drove us forward.

     It was the faith of a quiet humble man that helped me get it right. The Big One (blessings from God) is always in the Mail. We just need to take the time to see what God is doing. Then we need to praise him for all that he does.

Thank you for reading.

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The Big One is in the Mail!

What is a Blog Anyway?

Chaplain Joe's Chapel Office

"JOE, YOU SHOULD START A BLOG!"
     "JOE, YOU SHOULD START A BLOG!"
        "JOE, YOU REALLY SHOULD START A BLOG!"
People keep suggesting that I start a blog!
I've read some blogs from time to time, and was never very impressed. It seems that the world is full of voices thrusting their opinions upon us.  These cries of opinion happen so often that you feel like your head is going to explode. But to be kind to my friends I thought I might look into it.
   I had to ask the question, "WHAT IS A BLOG ANYWAY ?". I turned to the dictionary but you know how difficult they can be! One of my favorite poems is called;

"THE DICTIONARY"
If I should come across a word
One that I have never heard,
And its meaning I don’t know,

To Webster I most often go.
And in his book of wisdom true,
I find the word I never knew,
But lo and behold!
The meaning I see
Is a lot less clear than the word to me.

Now begins the job I think
Is worst,
To look up each word that explains
The first.
And often by the time I’m done.
I’m right back where I started from.

But this time the world wide web was a big help in finding the answer.
A blog is a combination of two words WEB and LOG crunched together to form one word or BLOG. It is generally a log of opinion or point of view expressed by one individual in an environment that see all opinions as equal and on the same plain or level of exceptance. It is generally updated daily weekly or monthly and allows interaction with readers who want to express their thoughts.
It sounded like a pretty good idea to me!
I will be discussing lots of topics and would love for you to chime in.

This is my first posting!
Just remember that kindness to others through the love of Christ has eternal consequences.
Thanks for reading.
Keep us in Prayer. There is a lot to Rejoice Over!!!!!!
Joe Kadtke

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